I thought I would separate these resources out to their own page. Here are some posts I find particularly insightful:

"10 reasons why Mike Pence's 'Billy Graham Rule' harms us" by Natalie Collins

"The Mickey Mouse Syndrome: Avoiding the Temptation or the Appearance of Evil" by Jill Richardson

Also very relevant:

"i am not a sex-fueled robot" by Micah J. Murray

"Modesty: I don't think it means what you think it means" by Rachel Held Evans

Note: If you are not able to meet alone with someone without feelings of attraction that you are afraid you might act on, you must remove yourself from ministry immediately and get help and support.